Friday, July 22, 2011

Teens: Do You Curse?

i curse all the time, but i limit it when i'm with my parents. me and my siblings go "yo, n*gger!" when we see eachother (we're all mixed race) and it's kind of funny, we do it to other black/mixed people and they take it fine. i use f*ck and sh*t and b*tch most, and words like w*nker and b*stard rarely. i never say c*nt, my parents would murder me. i do it in public and in private, and usually i say it because i'm frustrated, i'm greeting a mate or i've hit myself by accident (likely to stub my toe) and then yell "oh you f*cking sh*t b*tch!" ...but, meh. i don't curse as much as i used to.

Why are my goldfish turning black?

I went and bought some simple goldfish that were sold as feeders from petco a couple weeks ago and when i got them they started getting bacterial infections... I treated them with aquarium salt and they did great and are now healed completely but no i have another problem, they are starting to turn black!.. black patches keep showing up more and more almost if they were going through a color change there is only 1 outta 4 that is not doing this and it might just be because he is goldish black in the first place idk... i need some help...they aren't acting sick at-all they are spunky and are happier then when i got them but they just keep turning black.. first on the fins then now two have it on there foreheads..

Babysitting an 18 mo. old at a church; what do I need to bring?

The girl I'm babysitting, Chloe, is very well-contained, although her attention span is just that of her age. Since it's at a church, all they have are some old, used toys in the nursery, although I don't feel they'll provide much towards Chloe and her spunky personality. I know of a spot in the church where there's balloons, bubbles, and sidewalk chalk so we could go outside and play with those. But if it rains, there's some books to read and such. However, I need to know if I need to talk some snacks, etc. I'm already bringing some band-aids, and some child-friendly CDs to listen to if she happens to get bored. Other than that, I don't know what else to bring. Any pointers?

Can a Pastor preform an exorcism ?

Our neighbors kid has been acting strange lately. Cursing in Latin ,spiting on people, killing small animals,and I think he tried to kill his baby sister. His father has had to chain him to the bed at night. He fears for the rest of the family. I've asked our Pastor to just talk to this kid. He refuses,and suggested I ask a Priest to help them. What should I do ?

What should i wear to a beach bonfire?

Yea that sounds good but I would also bring a sweatshirt. Even if you don't get cold, there will always be a girl who will happily wear it! (:

Is being beautiful a curse? help!?

Yes. Everything comes with it is disadvantages. Be happy you are beautiful, many women desire to be beautiful and that is why they are mean towards you. I do like the fact you try to prove you are more than just a beautiful face.

My family is so negative all the time!!!!?

I live with my mom, grandma and younger brother. My younger brother is never home and I don't blame him because being at home is hell. We're not the most loving family. We're very cold towards each other (We don't say I love you, spend quality time, and we don't really talk to each other) which doesn't really bother me as much anymore. What does bother me is that my mom and grandma are constantly bickering and complaining. I always clean my room but today I cleaned it inside out (closet, dusted everything, organized it thoroughly) and of course, my grandma said "Oh wow, she cleaned her room, I guess the world is ending." I also helped my mom clean the house since we have some family coming to visit us tomorrow. Anyway, I was in my room playing Black ops and my mom said something to me but I didn't hear her because I get so into the game so she went around slamming doors and cursing. I don't get how people can get so angry and upset about everything. There's a strong negative energy in this house and it's driving me nuts. If I'm home, they're complaining about how I'm not doing anything and if I'm out volunteering or hanging out with friends, they complain about me never being home. I can never satisfy them. I also had an interview today and instead of encouraging me and making me feel good they started bitching at me which made me reschedule my interview because I just felt angry and upset. I'm going to an out of state college next year because I'm sick of this, I just need help right now. I don't know what to do or how to cope with these negative people.